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Chinyorwa ichi chinoratidza rusaruro rwechinyakare, kutsoropodza feminism uye kuchiratidzira sesangano rinopfurikidza mwero rinokuvadza nzanga.
Yakagadzirwa uchishandisa artificial intelligence.
Manzwiro emanzwiro akashata zvishoma, achiratidza kushushikana uye kusatendera kune chimiro chezvino chevakadzi uye nhaurirano yezvematongerwo enyika.
Yakagadzirwa uchishandisa artificial intelligence.
- Chikadzi chave izwi rakasviba, asi vashoma vanonzwisisa rima rakavanda pakati penharaunda ino apo uipi hunonyepedzera setsitsi.
Kana Ipsos vakadzi vakaongororwa kuZuva Revanhukadzi Renyika Dzepasi Pose, 20% vakabvuma kuti “Feminism inokuvadza kupfuura kunaka,” uye 25% vakati, “Chivanhurume chetsika chiri mungozi nhasi.”
Huwandu idzo kubva muna 2022 dzinogona kunge dzakatokwira nhasi - chiratidzo chekukura kwezuva nezuva kwepolarization munzvimbo yedu yezvematongerwo enyika. Gakava rakabudirira chinhu chekare - gakava rezvematongerwo enyika nhasi rinowanzove nenhaurirano inotevera:
Liberal: "Iwe uri rusarura!"
Conservative: "Uri dzungu!"
Kutuka kunoenderera mberi, divi rimwe nerimwe rinowedzera kutsamwa, uye hapana chinoitwa.
Sei zvematongerwo enyika zvave nehuturu kudaro?
Feminism yave kuonekwa semushandirapamwe wekutsiva murume - ndiko kushomeka. Vanonyanya kukoshesa vakadzi vakaunganidza zvinotevera pasocial media uye vane zvinzvimbo zvechiremera vane gehena-vakagadzirira kuranga varume vese nekuda kwemhosva dzevashoma vakasarudzwa.
Tinogona kuwana mhinduro iyoyo nekutarisa mumakona erima epa online feminist community. Iyi ndiyo nzira yakajairika inoonekwa nguva nenguva mazuva ano - vanopfurikidza mwero, avo makore gumi apfuura vangadai vakanzi mapengo, vanongoerekana vaiswa pachikuva uye kunamatwa neruzhinji.
Kugadzira vanyanyisi ava uye kuvabvumira kuparadzira maonero avo kune vateereri vakawanda kunozopedzisira kwachinja vaimbofungira zvine mwero kusvika kumagumo echiratidziro - ipapo kutenderera kunodzokorora.
Asingasviki makore gumi apfuura, izwi rekuti feminist rakaburitsa mufananidzo wevakadzi vanoda kuenzana - kusimbisa kuenzana. Vanorwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi munhoroondo vakarwira kodzero yevakadzi yekuvhota, kuva nemidziyo, uye kuva nebasa - kodzero dzakakodzera munhu wese.
Zvino, feminism imhuka yakasiyana zvachose.
Zvechikadzi zvemazuvano hazvisi zvekuenzana
Usatarise kumberi kweanofa akaomarara wechikadzi uye mutori wenhau Ava Santina, anogaro tsinhidzira paPiers Morgan Uncensored, anoti feminism haina kureba.
Panguva ya vachikurukura kuti vakomana vadiki vanotya sei kupomerwa mhosva yekushungurudza pabonde, Ava akati, “Ndinoda kutyisa ikoko!… Ndinofunga kuti varume vanofanira kutya!” Kuti tiise izvi muchirevo chechinyorwa, aitaura nezvevakomana vachiri kuyaruka vasina kugadzikana uye vachiita zvikanganiso zvisina mhosva, kwete varume vakuru!
Feminism iko zvino yave kutekeshera kwebato re #MeToo iro rinodaidza varume vese sechibharo, vabati zvisina kunaka, uye mhondi uye vakadzi vese sevabatwa vasingagone kunyepa. #MeToo chaive chinhu chakanaka, asi vezvechikadzi vakachitora vakachimonyanisa kuti chienderane nehurongwa hwavo.
Ipfungwa ine hungwaru, kutora musoro unonyandura senge kushungurudzwa mudzimba, izvo vanhu vazhinji vanogona kuenderana nazvo. Pashure pezvose, vakawanda vedu tinoziva mukadzi, angava mudzimai, musikana, amai, mwanasikana, kana kuti hanzvadzi, uyo akabatwa zvisina kufanira.
Nekutamba patsitsi idzodzo, vanhu ava vanogona kuputira ruvengo rwavo rweboka, mune iyi nyaya, varume, nejira rezvinonzi tsitsi.
Kutongwa kwemukurumbira kwakatsamwisa mafeminist
Iyi mhando yefeminist yechizvarwa chitsva yakawedzera simba zvichitevera muyedzo wegore rapfuura wemukurumbira weDepp vs. Heard.
Mutevedzeri Amber Heard akapomera uye akasvibisa mutambi Johnny Depp semushushi, achiti aimushungurudza mupfungwa, mumuviri, uye pabonde pavakanga vakaroorana.
Depp akamhan'arira Heard nekusvibisa zita rake, achiti zvaaipomerwa ndezvenhema uye zvakakanganisa basa rake. Heard akapomerwawo mhosva yekusvibisa zita rake nekuti gweta raDepp rakamuti murevi wenhema pachena.
Dare revatongi rakateerera mavhiki ehuchapupu uye rakazowana richifarira Johnny Depp, vakagumisa kuti Amber Heard ainyepa achiziva nezve mhosva yekushungurudzwa.
Vamiriri vekodzero dzevarume vakapemberera kuti Depp akawana kururamisira uye kuzivikanwa kuti murume anogona kubatwa kwete kupomerwa zvenhema chete asiwo kushungurudzwa.
Kune rumwe rutivi rwemari…
Vatsigiri vevakadzi vakaoma musoro vakapinda mukunyungudika, vachiramba kubvuma mutongo wedare, vachiratidza kutongwa kwese sewedzero yeubaba (izwi revanoda vakadzi rinotsanangura hurongwa hunodzorwa nevarume), uye kunamata Amber Heard semunhu akashinga.
Vakapakata mutsara wekare we #BelieveAllWomen, vezvechikadzi vakarwisa vezvenhau vachiti chiitiko ichi chine ngozi sei - kuti mutongo uyu unokurudzira varume vazhinji kumhan'ara vanovapomera kuti vanyarare.
Hapana kutaurwa nezvekuti hurongwa hwekutonga hunoshanda sei kana kuti inguva yakadii iyo jury yakaisa muchiitiko ichi. Zvakanga zvisina basa kune vevakadzi kuti Heard akange asina humbowo uye aibata pachena pachigadziko - hazvina kana basa kuti Johnny aive nehumbowo hwechokwadi hwekuti Amber aimushungurudza.
Chainyanya kukosha kwaiva munhukadzi. Vakadzi vanofanira kutendwa nguva dzose - varume vane mhosva nguva dzose.
Justice ndizvo Zvinoshamisa zviri nyore munyika yehukadzi hwakanyanyisa.
Iwe unogona kufunga kuti chirevo chiri pamusoro, asi sezvauchaona, zvakanyanya kuipa, kana zvisiri zvakanyanya.
Kutonga kwemutemo pasi pevanorwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi
Tora ane mukurumbira UK feminist uye barrister, Charlotte Proudman, anozivikanwa nekuvenga murume wake Twitter rants uye rudo rusingaperi rwaAmber Heard. Maawa mashoma ega ega, Proudman's Twitter account inoburitsa titter kune vake zviuru makumi manomwe+ vateveri nezve mabatiro anoita varume.
Dzimwe nguva, maTweets aProudman anosekesa vazhinji vanozotaura zvekuti anofanirwa kunge ari account yeparody, mumwe munhu ari kuseka. Nehurombo, akanyanya kuoma uye anoenderera mberi achishanda semumiriri mumatare emhuri eUK.
Kutanga, Proudman, gweta, akataura mubvunzurudzo nezve Depp vs. Heard kuti "humbowo hahuna chekuita nenyaya iyi." Aya ndiwo mafungiro aProudman; kunyangwe segweta rakadzidzira basa, anoramba humbowo sehusina kukosha asi anongotarisa nezvemurume kana mukadzi.
Proudman's Twitter account ichaputitsa pfungwa dzako…
Proudman anopemberera pfungwa yevakadzi vakasiyana-siyana nekuti vari kuramba zvechirume. "Vakadzi veTrans vanoratidza kurambwa kwekupedzisira kwehubaba. Chii chingava chikuru F^^^ iwe kupfuura kuramba tsika dzechirume dzinokuvadza dzechivanhu.”
Zvinoshamisa kuti vakadzi vazhinji vakanyanya kuita seProudman vanotsigira zvakasimba hurongwa hwetransgender uye vanoratidza kushushikana kushoma pamusoro pevarume vekuzvarwa vachigovana dzimba dzekugezera dzevakadzi. Proudman anoti, “Kana murume achida kushungurudza vakadzi, anozviita zvisinei nekuti ari kushandisa chimbuzi chega chega.
Proudman anofanira kunge akarwara pazuva ravakadzidzisa pfungwa yekupara mhosva yemukana kuchikoro chemutemo. Zvakadaro, masangano mazhinji anorerekera kuruboshwe anobvuma kuti ingangoita 30% yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde hakuna kurongeka, uko mupari wemhosva anotora mukana wemamiriro ezvinhu - sekunge ari muimba imwechete yekugezera.
Kunyangwe nemaonero ake akanyanyisa uye kushora kuri pachena kwevarume, Proudman akatiza kubviswa nekuda kwekuenderana kwake nekuruboshwe kwezvematongerwo enyika. Pasinei nekunyunyuta kwakawanda, anoenderera mberi achishanda semumiriri, anogara achionekwa pazviratidziro zvenhau, uye akanyora akati wandei ma-ed emapepanhau ane mukurumbira.
Zvinowedzera:
Muna Chivabvu, Proudman akaburitsa mazano ake ekuvandudza hurongwa hwematare emhuri muUnited Kingdom, anonzi “10 dzakakosha shanduko kuThe Victims' Bill. "
Nhamba yechitanhatu parondedzero yake yakataura zvinokatyamadza kuti: “Kana mumhan’ari achipomera kubata chibharo, kushungurudzwa mudzimba kana kudzorwa nechisimba, ari kupomerwa haafanire kubvumidzwa kutsvaga zvakawanikwa kuti mumhan’ari ‘akanyepa’ pamusoro pezvaari kupomerwa. Maitiro aya ari kuodza moyo vamhan’ari kutaura nyaya dzekushungurudzwa, zvichisiya vana vari panjodzi yekukuvadzwa zvisingagadzirisiki.”
Ndokumbira uverenge zvakare uye ufungisise…
Proudman arikukurudzira mutemo unodzivirira zviri pamutemo varume kuti vazvidzivirire pakupomerwa - ivo havabvumidzwe chaizvo kupa humbowo hwekusava nemhosva!
Maitiro aya haaizokurudzira kupomerwa kwenhema mudare remhuri here, sezvo vanaamai vakapererwa vaizoziva kuti kupomera mhosva kushungurudza kwaizova kukunda kwega kwega?
Kunyangwe paine boka guru revanhu vane pfungwa dzakanaka vachiratidza kushatirwa nekusarurana kwaProudman, vazhinji vanomunamata semufananidzo wechikadzi - uye angori mumwe wevazhinji.
'Psychiatry ndiyo patriarchy ine pad yemishonga'
Mumwe munhu ane mukurumbira munharaunda yevakadzi vane utsinye uye anogara achidzokorora retweeter yaProudman ndiDr. Jessica Taylor, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa anoti, “Pfungwa dzepfungwa ndidzo madzibaba ane padhi yemishonga, uye chinyoreso chizere neingi.
Chitendero chaTaylor ndechekuti varume vari mundima yehutano hwepfungwa uye zvepfungwa vari kutarisisa vakadzi vane kusagadzikana kwepfungwa senzira yekuvadzvinyirira.
Taylor ari kuyedza kusundidzira vhezheni yake yeDiagnostic uye Statistical Manual yeMental Disorders (DSM) inoshandiswa mukurapa kwepfungwa kuongorora chirwere chepfungwa.
Kusiyana neDSM, "Indicative Trauma Manual" yaTaylor haina "Disorders," "Labelling," kana "Diagnostic criteria" - nokuti zvose izvi ndezvemadzibaba.
Jessica Taylor anotendawo kuti hurongwa hwedare remhuri, hunotoonekwa sevakadzi-kutanga, vanowanzoti vanaamai vanorwara nepfungwa. Kutumira meme kune vateveri vake vangangosvika 0 XNUMX vachiti "Chaiyo chifananidzo kubva kudare remhuri" ine katuni yakashandurwa kubva kuThe Simpsons inoratidza "XNUMX mazuva pasina kupomera amai kurwara nepfungwa" nedare remhuri.
Muchokwadi, vanhu vazhinji vanoshoropodza dare remhuri nekufarira vanaamai pamusoro pemadzibaba, kunyanya kuUnited Kingdom, kunogara Taylor. Nhamba dzinoratidza izvozvo madzitateguru kuve nekukanganisa kwakajeka muhurongwa hwematare emhuri, paine ingangoita 93% yemubairo wekuchengeta mwana wega unoenda kuna amai.
Hurongwa hwematare emhuri hwakatyoka muUK zvekuti hwakakonzera huwandu hunotyisa hwevanosvika 1 muvana vatatu vanokura vasina baba - uye kazhinji haisi sarudzo yemurume - makumi mana muzana evanaamai vanobvuma pachena kuti vanokanganisa kuonana, sekureva kweDhipatimendi. yeSocial Security.
Izvo hazvina kukwana kune vanomiririra vanhukadzi nhasi.
Chombo chekuenda kune chemazuva ano chevakadzi
Kufanana nevamwe "vanachiremba" pane iyi rondedzero, Dr. Emma Katz anowanzo Tweets nezve kushungurudzwa mudzimba. Katz munyori uye muongorori wezvekumanikidza kutonga, nzira nyowani uye yakasarudzika yekushungurudza mudzimba iyo vakadzi vakanyura mazino avo.
Hapana mutemo wemubatanidzwa unopikisa kudzora kwekumanikidza muUnited States, uye vashoma chete vematunhu vane mitemo inopokana nazvo - California iri imwe, hongu. United Kingdom yakatanga kuzviona senzira yekushungurudzwa muna 2015 pasi pe Serious Crime Act.
Hurumende yeUK inotaura kuti mhosva yakaparwa kana munhu "akadzokorora kana kuramba achiita maitiro kune mumwe munhu ari kutonga kana kumanikidza."
Vazhinji vanozoziva izwi iri kana vanga vachitevera kutongwa kwechiRomanian kwaAndrew Tate, uyo anoti akamanikidza nekunyengera vakadzi kuti vatengese mavhidhiyo ezvepabonde online.
Kunyangwe vakadzi vakuru ava vakatora chikamu nekuzvipira kubva kumavhidhiyo aya, uye vamwe vakataura pachena kuti Tate haana kuvanyengedza, vachuchisi vekuRomania vanosimbirira kuti vakabatwa - havazvizivi nekuti vakarongedzerwa pfungwa - zviri pachena.
Zvinoenderana nevechikadzi, kumanikidza kutonga kunotangira kubva kune yakaverengerwa brainwashing kune imwe mugumo kuenda kuchikumbiro chine ruremekedzo kune imwe. Zvinogona kunge zvakangofanana nekuudza mumwe wako zvekupfeka kana kumukumbira kuti asabuda husiku nekuti zvine njodzi.
Vazhinji vemazuva ano vanorwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi ndivo vanotsigira zvakanyanya kubvumidzwa kwekubvisa pamuviri kusvika pamwedzi wepfumbamwe wemimba - teerera zvakataurwa naProudman ! Vechikadzi vakadai saEmma Katz vanoedza kubatanidza kutonga kwekumanikidza nemutemo wekubvisa pamuviri, vachisimbisa chirevo chinotsamwisa - chekuti varume vanofarira kumanikidza vakadzi kubereka vana vavo!
“Madzimai anodzorwa nechisimba uye #nenhumbu vari kutotadza kuwana mari nekuda kwe#economicabuse yemumwe wavo. Izvi zvinotadzisa kukwanisa kwavo kuwana hutano hwekubvisa pamuviri kune imwe nyika. "
Iwo epfungwa gymnastics anopenga evakadzi vanoita kubatanidza mafungiro avo ese pamwechete anofanira kunge achinetesa!
Izvi zvinoshamisa:
Katz achangonyora a Blog romukova, yakavanzwa kuseri kwemubhadharo, asi yakapfupikiswa paTwitter se "Varume vanotuka vachitaura pakati pavo vakaratidza kuti vanoziva kuti vanowana mabhenefiti makuru kubva mukushungurudza vakadzi nevana."
Kana iwe ukawana murume anotaura pachena nezve "mabhenefiti makuru" aanowana munharaunda nekushungurudza vakadzi nevana, zita uye nekumunyadzisa muchikamu chekutaura - ini handibatike.
Iwo maretweets anokatyamadza zvakadaro:
Tichienderera mberi pasi peKat'z Twitter nguva, imwe yekutanga retweets inoti, "Tendai vanaamai. Vanotaura chokwadi.”
Saka ndizvozvo, nyaya yakavharwa; vakadzi havagone kunyepa manje?
“Hakusi “makakatanwa ewanano” asi kushungurudzwa. Haizi "nyaya dzekukurukurirana" ndeye #coercivecontrol haisi "nyaya dzemhuri" asi kurwadzisa. #domesticviolence & #coercivecontrol imhando dzekutambudza zvakanyanya pachikamu kana chikuru pane izvo zvePOWs zvakaitika uye PTSD," akadaro a retweet kubva kuKatz, yakatanga kutumirwa na @KilmerLawSuit.
Makakatanwa ewanano uye nyaya dzemhuri zvinonyatso kuenzana nekunwa mvura kwemazuva ese?
Vanorwira vanhukadzi munhau
Tichiri kuongorora mamwe maretweets, tinowana mutori wenhau weNBC Kat Tenbarge, mutori wenhau wetekinoroji uye wetsika anotenda kuti vakadzi havafi vakapomera mukurumbira kana mari.
“Hakusi kupusa kutenda vanenge vawirwa nenjodzi. Hupenzi kutenda kuti hurongwa hwekutonga hahukundikane. Hupenzi kutenda kuti vanhu vasina njodzi vanonyepa asi vane simba vanotaura chokwadi. Hupenzi kufunga kuti mumwe munhu anganyepa kushungurudzwa kana kurova kuti awane mari kana mukurumbira.”
Hakusi kupusa here kufunga kuti mumwe munhu haaiti kuti awane mari kana mukurumbira?
Nhoroondo yevanhu yakazara nemienzaniso yevarume nevakadzi vachiurayana nekuda kwezvinhu zvakadaro, tisingatauri nezve kupomera kwenhema, uko migumisiro yacho inowanzova mishoma.
Fungidzira kuti basa remutemo ringave nyore sei dai mafiminist aya ari kutonga:
Vatongi havazodi makore echikoro chemutemo - kana vakakwanisa kunyatsoona kuti murume anopomera mhosva uye anopomerwa (akapihwa, zvisiri nyore nguva dzose munyika yanhasi), vanowana basa. Munyika inotungamirirwa nevanorwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi, vatongi vanotonga nyaya dzichibva pagwara rekutarisa rakapfava rine mativi maviri rine mitongo yakasimba.
Mupomeri: mukadzi, tarisa. Mudziviriri: murume, cheki. Mutongo: mhosva. Mutongo: kudzingwa!
Kufunga nezvemufananidzo mukuru
Mumiriri wevakadzi pane iyi runyorwa anogona kuseka kupusa kwemuenzaniso uri pamusoro asi anotadza kunzwisisa kuti zvizhinji zvezvavanoti zvakafanana, zvakangoputirwa nemutauro wemaruva. Bato rinorwira kodzero dzevanhukadzi rakazadzwa nemuchetura nemafungiro ekare ekuti "isu tichipikisana navo" zvekuti varume vese ndivo "vakaipa" uye vakadzi vese ndivo "vakanaka."
Usandibata zvisirizvo:
Mafungiro aya haasi ega echikadzi - akapararira mumapoka ese nemapato ezvematongerwo enyika. Zvingangove ndizvo zviri kukonzera mamiriro ezvinhu ezvematongerwo enyika iye zvino.
Kutya kurambwa mukati meboka rako pachako kune vanhu vari pamucheto - kuenderana neimwe maonero kune njodzi munyika umo chero chaunotaura chinogona kuenda kuhutachiona mumasekonzi. Saka vazhinji vanotora pfungwa yemubatanidzwa senzira yekusuwa yekuzvidzivirira kubva pakukanzurwa kunotyisa.
Tinozviona nguva nenguva ...
Vakasununguka, vachiziva kuti varume vekubereka vanokwikwidzana nevakadzi mumitambo hazvina kunaka, nyarara. Vechikadzi, vachinzwisisa kuti havasi varume vese vanobata chibharo, vanoramba vakatsiga. MaDemocrats, asina kugutsikana kuti Trump ane rusaruraganda, vanobata rurimi rwavo. Muenzaniso wacho wakajeka.
Kuramba wakanyarara uye kwete kupikisa pfungwa mukati meboka ndiko kunoita kuti pfungwa dzinopenga dzibereke.
Funga nezvazvo:
Murume anopikisa munhukadzi anosekwa, “Chokwadi angataura kudaro. Iye murume!” A Republican anodenha Democrat anoraswa pasina kufunga, "Hongu angataura izvozvo. Iye muRepublican! "
Asi kana imwe yematambudziko ako iwe - unomira - boka rinomira - uye munhu wese anotanga kufunga.
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, kunyarara kwakadaro kwazova tsika, kuchititungamirira mumhoteredzo ine chepfu yezvematongerwe enyika. Inyika umo varume vokubereka vari kuputsa marekodhi emitambo yevakadzi, uye gweta rinorumbidzwa nokutaura kuti matare adzivise varume kupikisa kupomerwa kupi nokupi. Ichi ndicho chokwadi chisingagadziki chatakatarisana nacho.
Zvinoda munhu akashinga kuti asimuke oti, “Chii chinonzi f*** ichi? Kupenga uku!” Ipapo ndipo pazvinozodzokera pakare. Kusvika panguva iyoyo, mhirizhonga ichabudirira isina kuvharwa - uye zvidzidzo zvenhoroondo zvinotiyambira kuti nzira iyi inogona kupedzisira yatungamira mukurasikirwa nehupenyu.
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